The mostly reported child abuse nowadays is sexual child abuse on innocent Vulnerable Children, so how can you protect you children from this prevalent abuse is your responsibility as a parent. However, you can ask child expert to help you get through this difficult parental responsibility.

Introduction

You are fortunate that your own children is not like the other children who are vulnerable to child abuse like physical abuse, emotional and sexual abuse, if your children is under you own security blanket. However, if though within your care your child is for sure safe but what about when you are not around to protect him or her? Can you trust anyone to take care your child or children when you are not around?

The Prevalent Type of Child Abuse

With our perilous times, even to a priest (which perceived to be a person who does always good and serving god) you cannot entrust you child in fear of sexual abuse called pedophilia perpetrated especially by the Roman Catholic Priests which is so prevalent today. The sexual abuse done by the Roman Catholic priests were left untreated and the sexually abused children were left the scar or trauma until they have grown up. This kind of child abuse should be reported immediately to the authorities who seek the welfare and protection of vulnerable children. So how can you protect your children or protect our children from the prevalent sexual abuse like this one?

Of course, you cannot ban your child or children from meeting or greeting anyone in the streets or in your community lest your child or children will become social phobic. So what is the best way how to protect your child from vulnerable abuse?

In case of sexual abuse, a sexual abuser tends to win first the trust and confidence of your children upon them and then eventually sexually abuse them or molest them. The first thing you should do to protect your children from sexual abuse, according to child expert is to educate your children in the early age about sexual abuse with a proper language or education in appropriate to their age. Like for example, about “touch”. Differentiate and demonstrate to them the “good touch” and “bad touch”, and as well as the “secret touch”. With this kind of education, your child will report to you about any persons who touch them and what kind of touch they do to them. Good Touch according to Child expert is hugging, patting on your shoulder, and kiss on cheeks (however, for me or in my opinion, these also are dangerous for sexual abusers tend to be doing these tactics), while the Bad touch is hitting and pushing you, and the similar sort. The Secret touch is if someone wants to touch you and says that it must be kept secret that they touch you.

To educate your children about the secret parts that would not be touch, expert says that you should used the “bathing suit” technique to demonstrate to your vulnerable children what is the private parts that should not be touch and the public parts that can be casual touch.

Child expert also says that make this a daily education to your children even as they grow old and make it a family conversation, so that you can ask your children after schooling what kind of touch they have today or at school.

Daily communication and parental trust is your best tool to protect your children from vulnerable abuse.